It is a proven fact that for most couples their sex life wanes in its excitement over time. However it doesn’t need to be that way. As with everything else in life, if you want your love life to stay healthy you need to put in a bit of effort and thought. With a bit of creativity and adventure you can keep your love life growing in passion and excitement. Here are seven proven tips:
Use massage oil. There are some wonderful scented oils you can now get that are not greasy. Use one to get each other relaxed and feeling sexy with a great massage.
Talk about a fantasy. Virtually everyone has fantasies. They are perfectly normal and healthy. So rather than leave them in your mind, share them with your partner. You might be surprised how sexy it makes you both feel!
Be flirty. Remember back to when you first got together, the freshness and newness of getting to know each other. Recreate those highly sexually charged early days with some playful flirting.
Have a naughty text conversation. This is like flirting over the cell phone, but take it a bit further and tell your partner what you would really like to do to them (and have them do to you). Just don’t let the kids have your phone!
Plan an erotic evening out. Sure, it’s easy to find a nice restaurant or club if you’re wanting a night out, but why not take it a further (erotic) step. Go for a browse in an adult shop and pick out a couple of ‘interesting’ toys. And how about visiting a swingers club? You don’t need to take part in anything, but even just watching can be fun and you’re bound to meet some other erotically minded people.
Plan an erotic evening in. A nice bottle of wine, some candles, rugs, incense and an erotic movie – all the ingredients of a wonderful night at home.
Push outside the comfort zone. Why not agree to push beyond your sexual boundaries and try something new? Start by talking about your fantasies and see what ideas come from there. You may say you only want to ‘keep’ them as fantasies, but wouldn’t it be interesting to explore them for real? You never know, it might be amazing!