6 Great Ideas to Spice Up Your Love Life

When two people have been in a relationship for some time, their sex life can easily become stale, or even non-existent. The biggest killer of passion in a relationship is actually not stress or external pressures but lack of variety. Try these six ideas and see if it doesn’t bring back some renewed vitality to your sex life:

Try a different location. If you’ve always made love in your bed for the last ten years, then a change of scene is definitely something you should try. It could be in another room in the house – how about the bathroom (preferably during or after a long warm bath together) – or you could try somewhere really exotic such as outdoors (on the beach or a secluded spot in a forest). It may take some organising but it would definitely be worth it.

Commit to trying new things. Sit down and brainstorm a list between you of all of the adventures, fantasies and other things you can think of. Then, for each item, ask each other how curious you might be about trying it. Then start ticking them off the list; many a relationship has been renewed by creating a ‘bucket list’ of sex.

Set aside a ‘passion night’ once a fortnight. As we grow older and the commitments of family and career become greater it is very hard to be truly spontaneous. So planning becomes all the more important – if you don’t plan the chances are very high it just won’t happen. By setting aside a night well in advance you can both plan the ‘events’ of the night itself as well as schedule other things around it. Your ‘passion night’ can be when you make use of your ‘bucket list’.

Buy some toys. Sex toys have come a long way and thy make a great addition to a couples’ sex life. Check out an online store or visit your local shop for some ideas.

Watch some erotica. We’re not talking here about sleazy, hard-core porn. There are some truly great and very artistic movies made in the ‘soft porn’ or erotica categories that are both enjoyable and highly stimulating. Two good examples are “Intimite” and “The Story of O”. A good erotic movie will not only stimulate your hormones, it will also make for some good discussions about sex.

Visit a swingers club. These are very interesting places! Far from being sleazy or ‘in your face’ most are quite tasteful and make for an enjoyable evening with an adult atmosphere. You won’t be under any pressure to ‘do’ anything. You will also often find a bar or other area where you can meet interesting people without sex being overtly obvious.

New Adult Romance Ideas To Spark That Passion

If you are looking for a new way to tease your lover in a romantic way, it might be a good time to have a romantic night in. Brainstorming about adult romance ideas can be tough, but it also can be rewarding. Not able to come up with any romantic night ideas, or any bedroom romance possibilities? Try out some of the following new adult romance ideas to help bring passion into your life.

Drop some candies in a trail leading to the bedroom, with a note attached mentioning a super sweet treat waiting at the end of the candy trail. Add a little bit of whipped cream, some cherries, and you will have a romantic adult dessert that your lover will adore.

If you haven’t already, go on a shopping spree at a sex shop, and try out your new toys once you arrive at back at your home. Indulge in everything from sexy outfits, to videos, to new handbooks full of sex tips, to more unconventional and kinky toys.

For wild couples, why not attend a nudist event? The laid back atmosphere, along with the sight of your lover’s naked body all day long is sure to please you. For the most romantic atmospheres, make an effort to look for secluded beaches, deserts, and forests near you.

Did you know that it is scientifically proven that the smell of a partner’s sweat will turn you on? Join a gym for the healthiest kind of foreplay around. This might not sound like an adult romance idea, but after watching your beloved work out, you’ll beg to differ.

One longtime favorite adult romance idea of many couples is to play dress up for an exciting sexual escapade. Buy a sexy costume, and become your partner’s fantasy tonight!

Ever wonder what it feels like to be a model? Spice up your bedroom romance by having your own personal photo shoot. Take turns with your partner taking erotic photos of each other, and then admire them later.

The Japanese Yakuza came up with an erotic way to spice up a sushi dinner – by eating it off a beautiful woman. This is a great way to enjoy your lover’s beautiful body.

Overall, the key to a great adult romance idea is to combine fantasy with reality. Adding a twist to the daily humdrum is all you need to do in order to have a romantic night you won’t soon forget.

Sexy and Romantic Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas for Men and Women

Now Christmas is over – that time of year when we spend our time and money on our family and friends. Valentine’s Day is quickly approaching – the time of year to spend time and money on yourself and your lover.

Sexy lingerie is a Valentine’s Day gift that pleases both of you. What makes lingerie such a sought after and much-given Valentine’s Day gift – more treasured than chocolates, flowers, stuffed animals and even jewelry? Lingerie says, “I love you and I want you.” It says, “You are beautiful and deserve to wear beautiful things. I think you are desirable.”

Sexy clothing is not THE only Valentines Day gift you should give her. If your lover is a chocolate fiend then you better get her some fancy chocolates too – and flowers are never a waste, but opt for two or three smaller boquets around the room instead of one big overbearing grouping. Choose different types of flowers – daisies, wild flowers, carnations – with maybe one rose tied with a ribbon. The rose will be romantic and the hardier flowers will last longer. Think about adding a slim book of erotic stories, some massage oil, adult toys or a special piece of jewelry with an encrypted romantic inscription.

Take the time to write a note to tell her or him exactly what it is about your relationship that turns you on. Don’t be afraid to get a little naughty – it will be remembered for many years to come.

From a practical standpoint, it can be hard for guys to know what kind of lingerie to choose or what size to buy. If you make a purchase at a lingerie store the clerks can often help by showing you what is popular or suggesting lines in your price range. They may even have size guides to help, but try to sneak into your gal’s dresser beforehand and check out the size on something similar to what you want to buy.

A short internet search for “Lingerie Shopping Tips” can also give you many pointers and ideas. If all else fails, a gift certificate for a shopping trip date to Victoria Secret can help you make your own decision for her birthday – or anniversary – or Christmas. You get the idea.

Many lingerie stores on the web have people qualified to help too. Try using the customer service or “contact us” buttons on a lingerie website. Usually an honest description of your gal with size ranges or measurements can help the sales person narrow down the selection for you. Most people in the lingerie business are very accustomed to helping men and women pick just the right sexy lingerie outfit from the hundreds of thousands available.

Whatever you decide to do, make it personal. Take time to think about your girl or guy and what romantic times you have had in the past or have discussed as fantasies. You do not have to spend a lot of money to make the day unforgettable. The thought that you put into doing something unique and loving is much more important than the price tag.

Copyright 2006 Katie Rose Intimates Sexy Costumes and Lingerie

Katie Rose is the owner of Katie Rose Intimates Sexy Costumes and Lingerie [http://www.katieroseintimates.com/] – A fine lingerie shop featuring romantic Valentine’s Day gifts, fantasy clothing, leather and lace and intimate apparel in sexy, erotic, romantic and unique styles – with special attention for the plus size woman.

Spooktacular Brew for the Sexless Marriage

October is a great month to brew Spooktacular desire back into the
Sexless Marriage or a virtually Sexless Marriage. Often times, sex
becomes absent in the marriage simply out of boredom and day-to-day
responsibilities which take over our time to be intimate and ability to be
keep intimacy alive.

These obstacles steal sexual desire a little at a time until sex becomes
absent in the marriage. Then, couples live in unhappy, and
avoiding marriages without resolutions. When the intimate connection
grows apart between the husband and wife, the couples can quickly find
their marriage suffering in a sexless dilemma hard to correct and even
harder to overcome.

Halloween is a perfect opportunity to break the ole’ boring routine our
marital intimacy gets stuck in and brew some life back into a sex life that
may otherwise be dead and gone.

Keeping sex alive in a marriage is about adding variety to marital intimacy
to keep it appetizing year- after-year. Otherwise, without change, sex may just
fizzle out and be difficult to restore.

Plan a surprise Halloween party for your spouse in the privacy
of your bedroom. No interruptions allowed though…get a sitter
lined up for a night Spooktacular romance. Then, allow yourself to
spend an entire night trick or treating in your private domain.

What an exciting way to add new adventure and variety to your love
life, not to mention, surprises your spouse and have a night of
breathtaking Thrills, Chills, and Goosebumps. A romantic Halloween
party, is an excellent way to break the barriers of a stale and
predictable love life.

So, get inside yourself and find that prankster gangster and plot
your Halloween bash. As the weather moves in to Fall, this is one
way to start warming the house for Winter temperature ahead.

It’s time to light the pilot in your marriage and set the
thermostat for new warmth in your martial intimacy. No since
staying stuck in a chilled bed night after night when it can
otherwise be different with a little work and imagination.

A surprise Halloween party is your time for a night of intimate
tricking and treating…not to mention, an opportunity to brew up

Furthermore, such an exiting bash is a perfect opportunity to
explore or introduce intimacy products such as warming lubes,
warming massage oils, edible powders, lotions and potions to your
love life. Complimentary lotions and potions certainly can
heighten pleasure and arouse desires that may be fizzled out.

Since Halloween is a time of pumpkins and spice, it is time
to capitalize upon both of these elements. Decorating for romance
and adding some Spice can be a new addition to your marital

Getting spark back into your marital relationship is about treating
your spouse to new and different experiences than where the two
have been and where the two of may remain.

Capitalize upon this holiday and use it to your marital benefits.
Allow your mind to be creative, daring, and adventurous as you plan
your night of Spooktacular fun….break those chains that bind your
adventurous side. Take the first step to enhance your romance if
the two of you are stuck, feeling bored, too tired, or experiencing
loss of excitement and desire for each other.

Do something you may have never done before, such as, buy an Adult
Costume or Novelty Underwear for yourself and your spouse. Then,
decorate your bedroom and bed to compliment your costumes.

Remember, the ideas is to set the mood by the costume and the decor.
If you envision slow and passionate romance, you might be the
naughty nurse for the night. Be sure and have all the medicine
potions to properly care for your patient though.

If you have reservations about shopping for an adult costume in
pubic, buy online. You can shop confidentially in the privacy of
your home. Or…if you absolutely are not a costume kind of
person…simply decorate your bedroom for romance.
What a fun surprise for your spouse and the opportunity to
restore some romance between the two of you!

Think back for a moment when you were a child, remember the
exciting feelings you felt as you waited in line to go through a
haunted house. You grew excited to the unknown ahead. You heart
pounded with uncertainly. Allow your mate the opportunity to
feel and view your marital intimacy in a renewed positive and
exciting Spooktacular light…..

Then, take your lovers hand and lead him or her into a night of
tantalizing passion.

Halloween is getting close…so start planning the SURPRISE now. No
matter how old we get, a nice surprise is pleasantly welcomed.
Putting together an intimate Halloween party can be inexpensive and
take little time….so get started now…we just have a few days
left until the romantic event…

Again, set the mood…be the sexy nurse, or firefighter. Decorate
and do not forget the Ghoulish necessities…to thrill, chill,
and send your lovers nerve endings over the edge.

Here are a couple of decorating ideas to get your creative side
stirred up….

Decorate your bed with a small strand of Halloween lights,
spider webs, and black rose petals…. but do not forget your
lover’s favorite candy to tease, treat and tantalize their body.
Remember, Halloween is all about treats!

In addition, add a few Spicy Pumpkin candles to the nightstand.
Scented candles will be a romantic compliment to the nights festivities,
not to mention, candles add an erotic aroma to dance in the air. Candle light
illuminates a bedroom for romance and bares a sense of warmth.

At last, complete your potions with warming massage oils, tasty lubes
and intimate toys for a Spooktober exotic experience.

Do not let this Halloween pass you by. Once again use this holiday to your advantage.
Treat your spouse to a night of Ghoulish fun and romance they won’t forget
and they will be looking forward to year after year.

Remember, adding variety to your sex life can rekindle an intimate
connection between the two of you. You can begin changing your
sexless marriage into romantic love life you both want and
deserve with a little creativity

7 Great Sex Tips for Couples To Keep Things Sizzling in the Bedroom

It is a proven fact that for most couples their sex life wanes in its excitement over time. However it doesn’t need to be that way. As with everything else in life, if you want your love life to stay healthy you need to put in a bit of effort and thought. With a bit of creativity and adventure you can keep your love life growing in passion and excitement. Here are seven proven tips:

Use massage oil. There are some wonderful scented oils you can now get that are not greasy. Use one to get each other relaxed and feeling sexy with a great massage.

Talk about a fantasy. Virtually everyone has fantasies. They are perfectly normal and healthy. So rather than leave them in your mind, share them with your partner. You might be surprised how sexy it makes you both feel!

Be flirty. Remember back to when you first got together, the freshness and newness of getting to know each other. Recreate those highly sexually charged early days with some playful flirting.

Have a naughty text conversation. This is like flirting over the cell phone, but take it a bit further and tell your partner what you would really like to do to them (and have them do to you). Just don’t let the kids have your phone!

Plan an erotic evening out. Sure, it’s easy to find a nice restaurant or club if you’re wanting a night out, but why not take it a further (erotic) step. Go for a browse in an adult shop and pick out a couple of ‘interesting’ toys. And how about visiting a swingers club? You don’t need to take part in anything, but even just watching can be fun and you’re bound to meet some other erotically minded people.

Plan an erotic evening in. A nice bottle of wine, some candles, rugs, incense and an erotic movie – all the ingredients of a wonderful night at home.

Push outside the comfort zone. Why not agree to push beyond your sexual boundaries and try something new? Start by talking about your fantasies and see what ideas come from there. You may say you only want to ‘keep’ them as fantasies, but wouldn’t it be interesting to explore them for real? You never know, it might be amazing!